In communication principle, both parties should learn to adjust as much as possible into kind of attitude they want to express. I think the key to making a good manner and right conduct to a healthy conversation and without offending other person's stand or understanding is to cultivate and put into practice the old saying-- "It always better that each one of us should learn to: "slow to speak and quick to listen" type of communicator.
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