I've heard many people complain about God not answering their prayers. They tell me they've been praying for the same things for years and even have lost their faith because of losing their confidence in God being loyal.
Of course it can be hard if you really (think you) want or need something. The answer I have found to this subject is the same as most answers in (christian) life: 'not looking through our own eyes, but looking through His eyes'
God teaches us through his Holy Spirit who we are in our real identity in Jesus Christ and in this process we learn to be less dependent on our 'ego' and more on Him. That way we learn to walk and think 'in line' with Gods plan for our lives.
If we learn to trust that God provides us in everything we need and never gives us more than we can bare, we will start to see this truth in life...
