- The first thing you need to know as far
as getting a babe is concerned, is that you
CAN actually get dates at will.
You don't have to see it as a very
difficult task, or be afraid she's going to
turn you down.
Women actually like and enjoy the fact
that you walk up and talk to them. It
excites them, flatters them, and makes
them feel good.
Don't ever think a girl would be upset or be
rude to you just because you want to talk to
her.
Now, one of the reasons why you can't
successfully get dates at will could be
because you are afraid
of what to say
of what she might think of you
she's not going to give you attention
she's not going to accept to date you
people around would be watching and
think something of you
But truth is... the girl is also conscious of
herself and wants to put up a good
showing, especially if you present
yourself as confident and deserving
respect.
So you act confident by walking up bold.
Remove every other thought from your
mind for now. Your mission is get the
girl's attention... casually!
AND any woman likes it when a man
GENUINELY says nice things to her. - Don't be desperate to get her phone
number.
Most guys, in a bid to get done with the
seemingly awkward scenario, just want
to grab her phone number.
If you are desperate to get her number,
one of two things could happen...
She reads through you, and tells you
point blank she can't release her phone
number or gives an excuse about her
phone being bad.
She pretends to be nice, and gives you a
wrong number. She could even give you
the right number, but since you've not
impressed her, she doesn't pick your calls
or tells her friend to tell you to stop
calling that line.
So here's the strategy...
DON'T ask for her phone number!
You can discuss anything, but don't
make her give you her number. She
wouldn't. What she wants to see is that
you are genuinely interested in her.
If you strike up a nice decent
conversation that makes her smile a
couple of times, you can officially ask for
her phone number ONLY... when either
of you is about to leave the scene. - Act like you are interested in her, and
not in wanting to date her.
You can't just meet a girl and ask her to
be your girlfried. Doesn't work that way.
Even if she likes you, she'd feel
embarassed and the best you'd get would
be a polite NO.
What you want to do is show genuine
interest in her and whatever she might
be doing at the moment.
Whatever it is she is doing at the
moment, find out more about it. Ask her
questions and throw in some meaningful
suggestions as well.
For the period of time you spend within
the first encounter, make it seem like you
were the only friend she had in the world.
And here's one great secret... women like
to talk about themselves!
You can get them to open up and share their
world with you if you pay attention to the
things she does and says, and ask
interesting questions.
"You are a business woman... wow!
That's interesting... So how did you get
into business?"
And here's another important point...
the more you get her to talk about
herself, the lesser the pressure on you.
It's like you are the bolder party, asking
all the questions.
But you don't need to over-do this. As
she answers, try to share your own
personal experiences. It bonds her to
you faster. - Be as natural as you can be.
Approach her naturally, and don't ever
try to be something you aren't. If you can
make do with passable English, go with
it. Don't try to speak big big grammar.
You'd only be making a fool of yourself.
Being yourself makes you confident and
win her attention more.
If you try to act like what you are not,
she's going to notice that you are
uncomfortable with yourself. She would
assume you are a liar and turn you off.
Do the things that come natural to you,
and you would have no problems
approaching, talking up, and even
asking for a date.
Speak to her with a high degree of
respect... politely, positively and
genuinely. - Get your timing right.
From when you first spot her, it's
important you time things correctly, else
you might bungle up things.
Make sure you approach her within
reasonable time. Don't keep thinking...
"Do I go now, or do I wait a little more?"
You can quickly turn into a stalker if you
keep staring at her repeatedly. And you
know what happens when she sees you
as trying to ambush her? It kills your
game.
There you go... try out those tips and
you'd never have a hard time approaching
and asking a woman out.