Opposed to popular saying love actually doesn't last forever. Being in love is a choice that you have to make everyday. Love requires hard work, patience and perseverance. But why is it that being in love is more difficult some days than the others? What makes staying in love hard?
Here are some reasons why people fall out of love:
Feeling unloved, unappreciated and ignored- When you feel you are not important to your partner, he/she is not recognizing or validating your efforts, this can make you feel pretty bad about yourself and might make you question why you are in the relationship in the first place.
Frequent disappointment from your partner- When you feel your partner is not meeting your expectations, you get disappointed. Disappointment creates resentment in the relationship which makes you question your love for your partner.
Communication problem- If there are major communication issues between you and your partner, you will not able to express yourself completely. Further it will create misunderstandings and cause conflicts in the relationship. Constant fights slowly robs the love out of the relationship.
People change- You are not the person that you were yesterday, and you won't remain the same person tomorrow that you are today. People change, people grow and sometime partners in relationships outgrow each other and lose compatibility in the relationship. There is nothing much that can be done about this.