A great real story for our example of everything I got from the next millis (this story once aired on MetroTV). Hopefully we can take lessons.
This is a real story, he is Bp. Eko Pratomo Suyatno, Director of Fortis Asset Management who is very famous among Capital Market and Investment, he is also very successful in advancing Mutual Fund industry in Indonesia. What he said is so true. Please read and live.
Judging from his age he is not young anymore, aged who has even dusk approaching the night, Mr. Suyatno 58 years of daily filled with caring for his wife who is sick wife is also old. They married already more 32 years. They have 4 children.
This is where the beginning of the ordeal, after his wife gave birth to a fourth child suddenly legs paralyzed and can not be moved. It lasts for 2 years. Stepping on the third year, his whole body becomes weak and even feels boneless, his tongue can not be moved anymore.
Every day pak suyatno bathing, cleaning up the dirt, feeding, and lifting his wife up on the bed. Before leaving for work, he put his wife in front of the TV so that his wife did not feel lonely. Although his wife can not speak but he always sees his wife smiling.
Fortunately, Pak suyatno's business is not so far from his house that he comes home for lunch to feed his wife during the day. In the afternoon he came home to bathe his wife, change clothes and after maghrib time he accompanied his wife to watch television while telling apa2 course he experienced all day. Although his wife could only look but could not respond, Mr. Suyatno was quite happy, even he always teased his wife every time he went to bed.
This routine was done by Pak Suyatno for about 25 years, he patiently took care of his wife even while raising the 4 of their hearts, now their children are grown, the youngest who still live in college.
One day, the four children of suyatno gathered at their parents' house while visiting their mother. Because after their son got married, had been living with their respective families and Pak Suyatno decided their mothers were caring, all he wanted was one of his children to succeed.
With a careful sentence the eldest son said "Sir we want to take care of the mother, since we were small saw the father took care of the mother, there was no complaint out of the lips father, even father did not allow us to keep the mother".
With tears in his eyes, the boy continued: "The fourth time we have allowed you to marry again, we think that mother will allow her when father enjoys father's old age, sacrifice like this we can not bear to see father. We promise we will take good care of the mother in turn ".
Pak Suyatno replied that his children did not anticipate: "My children ... If marriage & life in this world is only for lust, maybe father will marry .. but know with your mother beside me that is more than enough, he has give birth to you. For a moment his throat is choked, those of you who have always longed to be present in this world with love that none can be rewarded with anything. "
"Do you ask your mother if she wants things like this? You want a happy father, is it that you can be happy to leave your mother with this condition now, do you want a father who is still given God's health care by others? How about your sick mother. "
For a moment burst into tears of children pak suyatno. They also see the small grains fell dipembupuk Suyatno mother's eyes. With sadness she looks into her beloved husband's eyes.
Finally, Pak Suyatno was invited by a private TV station to become a resource person and they asked Suyatno how to survive for 25 years to care for his wife who can not do anything.
At that moment he burst into tears with the guests who were present in the studio, most of the women was not able to restrain. Pak Suyatno tells the story. "If man in this world glorifies a love in his marriage, but does not give (give time, energy, mind, attention) it is futility".
"I chose my wife to be my life companion, and as she was healthy she patiently took care of me, loving me with her heart and heart not with eyes, and she gave me 4 children who are funny. Now he is sick of sacrificing for our love together. And that is a test for me, whether I can hold a commitment to love it for what it is. Sehatpun not necessarily I seek a successor especially he is sick ... "
Life is a struggle without interruption, do not you cry yesterday.