Is that selfish? No.
Is that irresponsible? No.
As a human being, all of us is selfish. That is not bad at all. People always define “selfish” in the negative way. It is basically means self comes first. And that is not a bad thing.
You should know that people are going to judge you whether you do what you want or you do what they want. There are someones who support you, who prejudice you, who criticize you.
But in the end, it will always be you who have to deal with everything that happens in your life. So please live for yourself.
The meanningful life is not only being nice with others, helping people. It also includes doing thing that make your life worth living.
Dont forget that yourself need to be treated well, too. If you are not happy and loving yourself, how can you be in a position to make others happy and love others.
I dont encourage for a lifestyle that people dont care about the rest. I just mean whatever you do, let think about yourself and create a benefit balance between yourself and others. You will be hurt if you just live for others.
If life is not about making yourself happy and living the way you want to. I dont know what else it could possibly be about. There is nothing wrong with living for yourself, at all.
By: @hanggggbeeee