The most successful thing you can do in life is to figure out who you are and then try as much as possible to be yourself. Its a big mistake to try yo be who or what you're not. Life is bound yo be negative for those who have negative thoughts because they are half defeated before ever dating to begin.
No man will believe your world until you believe it. You cannot doubt yourself and expect any other person to believe in you. Having no faith is the beginning of the end. Your journey to happiness begins when you do just that.