You know,you cannot blame someone for not giving what they do not have. Most people carry bitterness with them since childhood. Its not their fault. How do u expect things to be,in Nigeria,we rather survive than live! A girl child that got pregnant at a very tender age of 14,most likely didnt get enough love at home and then one boy too that wasnt well trained took advantage of her. Then,she delivers the baby,what love does she know or have let alone give? The next thing on her head is how to survive. I spoke to a girl that was born into a home where the dad had so many wives. Unfortunately,d mum loves her sisters or lemme say other siblings over her......There is no way u wanna expect such a person to love.....By the time she grows, nd has a child of her own,she doesnt even know what to do....She has no idea how to show love,she'll rather expect gratitude for any little thing she does for her daughter! rather than feel its all love to her daughter she feels she deserve gratitude cos no one did all that for her. The way we are programmed is soo important! Let our generation make a difference! let us raise better men nd not wife beaters and irresponsible men....I dont know how a girl that grew up seeing her dad maltreat her mum will like men and obviously,a boy from that house will have a mindset that women needs to be beaten to be put in a place except for a good training from the mum. Let us teach our children both male nd female pls to love nd u can only teach young people by showing them! Most importantly teach them the love of the Lord,imbibe the fear of God in them. Love is gentle nd kind,love is patient, love is peace! Let us practice love in our homes. Pls,dont let them grow up having the mentality that marriage isnt nice. Most of this men that are Domestically violent are either a product of a broken homes or a product of over pampering(no one ti correct them). Let us teach our kids the way of the Lord pls. Secure their lifes, secure ur old age.