When a woman is possessive, she never want any lady around her date, fiance or man. She is very conscious of losing him and since the fear of losing him is always present with her, she will felt that she fear is acting itself out with her hubby or date paying attention to another woman in her present..
Woman that are possessive in nature often want too much from their date or spouse all in the name of love, they wanted to have all his attention and this may lead to a form of distraction to the man and as soon as he realize he is losing concentration on thing that are profitable to him elsewhere he may start to take cost of the relationship and create alternatives, one of which may be a back up lover that will check the excess he is receiving from an over bearing relationship from a possessive woman.
It's normal for you as a woman to be jealous over your man's attitude towards you because you been jealous shows you care about him.
But when it becomes excess it makes your spouse do what you are claiming he did due to frustration. One secret I'll give you is
Men hates Nagging...
Once I have a partner that nags over everything I do then I'll surely leave that relationship for another...
Since being possessive combines with hot temper, it would be easy for the possessives woman to become angry and get physical to vend her anger. Then people around would put blame on her for being too possessive.....
