Hi!
I am back today to talk about compassion. I think it's a tool of soul...a humanizing feature, and not a civil one, not an ethical one, a soul bonding feature, an interconectedness one.
I believe that fostering compassion and empathy in children is crucial, not just for their personal development, but for the betterment of society as a whole. One profound aspect of nurturing empathy is instilling compassion towards animals. By teaching our children to respect all forms of life, we not only ensure their respect for human life but also help them steer clear of violence in their relationships with others.
As I wrote in the beginning of this article, I think that compassion towards animals is not merely an ethical consideration BUT it's a fundamental perspective on life and the world around us. The broader a child's perspective on the world they inhabit, the more solidified their moral values become. Teaching children to protect animals instills in them a respect for nature and encourages behaviors that can have long-term positive effects, such as reducing pollution.
Encouraging your child's respect and curiosity towards animals lays the groundwork for potential interests and careers involving animal welfare. However, cultivating compassion towards animals begins in childhood. While we might like to believe that all children are born with an innate capacity for empathy and kindness, many behaviors are learned. At a young age, children may not recognize cruelty towards animals and may imitate violent behaviors towards them unknowingly. Only after understanding that other beings can experience pain can children decide to treat them kindly. Examples set by those around them play a crucial role in this aspect. When children mimic acts of cruelty towards animals, these behaviors can potentially lead to emotional problems later in life.
Here's how you can foster compassion towards animals in children from their earliest years:
Encourage compassion towards all animals: Children are adept at interpreting your facial expressions and pay attention to the words you use when talking about certain animals. While it's easy to want to protect a dog or a cat, it might be challenging not to be afraid of a lizard or a larger spider. It's best to have open conversations with your child and explain why you might have reservations about certain animals. Discuss that while some animals or insects may frighten us, pose a danger, or appear repulsive, it doesn't mean we should harm them; instead, we can choose to avoid them.
Teach them about animal life: Read books together about animals and insects, their roles in nature, and interesting aspects of their anatomy or physiology. Watch documentaries about their lives and the dangers they face due to human activities.
Volunteer for animals: As children grow older (over 7 years), they can accompany you on volunteering activities for animals (e.g., cats) to learn more about how they can be helped and cared for.
Teach safe interaction with animals: When visiting parks, teach your child to ask the owner before petting a dog. Teach them not to handle animals roughly or frighten them, as this might provoke defensive reactions. No animal should be pulled by the tail or ears, as it can cause pain. If an animal shows signs of discomfort, it should be left alone. The best way to learn about animals is to observe them first without doing anything. By observing them, children learn about the animals and their habitats, the families they live in, and how they grow and develop. Sometimes visits to parks, shelters, or zoos are helpful in helping children learn more about animal life.
Compassion is learned through small acts: If you see, for example, a ladybug or another insect drowning in water, help it to the surface. Feed the birds in the park or those flying in front of the building or in the backyard. Through small gestures, your child will learn more about compassion.
While teaching a child compassion and empathy in a world that seems increasingly superficial and aggressive may seem challenging, it's important to remember that the future generations will shape the world for themselves. Therefore, by teaching them compassion, we increase the likelihood of them living in a better world.
Thank you for reading.
I am glad we are having this "Kindness" community in Hive. 馃巿馃コ馃檶
With respect and care,
Zpek
