Realize that people are not things. People are not a commodity or to be treated as property. They should not be blackmailed emotionally in order to reach a desired outcome. A persons will should be free as it is a thing of nature and as such that is what nature intended it to be. No person should be obliged to listen to outrageous comments and endevour to mould themselves around them to please a tyrant. If you love someone then love them and do not cause them pain.
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