Wrong assumption is nothing new in my life I mean I have been seeing many things like this from before. You may not think much of these now but I will share what things used to happen because of this or what kind of things. So when I used to stay very quiet people would think maybe I am shy around them or I don't like talking with people.
Most of the time everyone used to think I was rude or arrogant. Well, the question is that if there are any reasons to assume these things? They could have just talked to me why I stay quiet or why my behavior or way of talking is like this.
But no one does that everyone thinks whatever is easiest they should do that which is judging people. I don't do these things if I feel something about someone I would directly ask. I think just like the five fingers of a hand are not equal, people are different too.
Everyone's capability are not the same so I don't expect anyone to understand me. Also, no one is a small child that I have to explain my feelings each and every time. I think someone who has even a little bit of intelligence will never judge someone. And I think if someone wants to understand me then they will not assume they will ask me they will want to know about me people like this actually care.
You know what? I always try to be right from my side and if I do something wrong I try to correct it but I don't like it when someone gives an opinion about me without knowing or hearing me.
Now, I will talk about the color. So when I was little I liked the black color because black is a color that has a deep meaning for me. Besides that what used to work in my head was that black is such a color that no one can color it with another color so I like it more because of that.
I think most of my dresse's are black and my jeans that I wear are also black. When I was a kid, my friends found it weird that I liked the color black. I did feel a bit left out because of that but it didn't stop me from liking it. I did not think that I should change my preference because someone else does not like it. I like it and that should matter the most and nothing else.
Well, my preference never changed even when I was slowly growing up. I do like other colors that doesn't mean I have to accept them as my favourite. I feel comfortable with the color of black. And I hope in the future my favorite color will never change. But I would say never say never, hehe. Because you wouldn't know, if your choices will start to change or not.
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