Ups and downs and then ups and downs again, there is a great youtube video that made me laugh:

And yes, I was talking about sex during red terrible thing coming out of you lol. Most women find it disgusting even if they are horny and that is why masturbation comes to the rescue. As for the taboo, I think it is still present because people do not talk about it enough. It is getting smaller and smaller so that is a good thing. Just a couple of years ago, you could not find so much neither online or in printed form about these kinds of topics.