If you are in an unhealthy relationship you may sometimes feel there's nothing sweeter than a breakup! But breaking up is not the end. A person has to work on getting over someone, right?
I'm specifically talking about love relationships because this is what people go thought very often and it takes more time than any other relationship. It's easy to talk about it then to apply in our own life. But we have to make ourselves at least ready so we don't fail ourselves and make our own life miserable.
The best thing to get over someone is giving your own self more time. Take your time to understand your feeling and emotions. This will tell you a lot about what you need to do. If you can make a good connection with your own self you don't have to rush for help. You will better know what to do when to do.
The second thing we should do is to take our time - to understand, to let to, to get over. Don't rush to other relations, just take your time to let go of the emotions that are holding your back. Give yourself time to understand what didn't work and what your need to do.
Don't hide the feeling, allow your emotions to come. Cry if you feel like and let go of the emotions. Hiding the pain is not erase the emotions. Open up the heart to let the wound heal.
Be honest with yourself. Allow yourself to know what your really want. Evaluate your feeling, observe what you need to do to get over it.
Don't make it hard for yourself to get over someone. Like keeping the communication while knowing it will never work, letting the person enter your life again even that person was abusive, etc. It takes time but we sure can do that. Ask help if you need but don't make it worse.
