If there is one thing that patents or should I say good parents, (cause there are some people that I know that are not proud of their parents, cause of Ike reason or the other) or if I should make it personal, if there is one thing my parent is good at, it will be advising...
So personally, I am so playful and fun, year, I am an extrovert, I really like to mingle and make new friends, see new faces and places, and also I am a photographer by profession, and so I have the opportunity to move to different places and see different people.
So anytime I want to go out, I do not like telling my parents untill its few days to the event, or maybe even after the program or event, and so they be like oh really, if you had told me earlier, you should have done this and that, and so if I calculate and compare every thing they said I could have done, to be honest, I do not know how, but they are just so correct and my way would have been way easier for me, and then I started to tell them about my plans more often so if I follow their advices, I get to see a lot of positive results...
There was a day I was going inside Ogun state, it was during the election time, or after the election, and then I told my dad and guess what, he was like no oo, I should not go, but I told him that I had an appointment, that I had to to take pictures, and then when he agreed, he was like he doesn't have any money to give me, then he said something very funny, because he knew the roads very well, and so he was like if anything happens, cause it seamed to him as the country is not save, and then he was like there is a roundabout and that if I should turn either right or left, I've forgotten, then he was like there is one of his brother that stays there, I should just run to him an tell him who I am, tell him what village I am from, and then he would accommodate me until everything has gone down.
After he said those things, I wanted to laugh, I was like nothing was going to happen, and then nothing happened, but then if Incase something had happened, he had already told me what to do, he already gave me a solid advice that could save my ass...
My mom gave me an advise one day, when I told her that I wanted to buy a house instead of building, and then she said hat it's not bad to buy a house, but then, the cost of building will be way lesser than that of buying, at first I didn't Concore to what she said, but later as I thought on it, I was like, when I can build a house with a lower cost, and then use the remaining money for some other things that is going to benefit me, and then I said yes ma, now I accept what you said.
She told me this because she also told my father but he declined her advice and now, he has seen the repercussions, and so he said I should not be adamant just like my father, so that I can have an early reward...
And till now, I am still on that thought, and I am going to build my self on that advice, and when I have extra money, I can then buy any house of my choice.
What do you think?
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PS: this post is dedicated to the Hivelearners Weekly Featured Contents, Week 57 edition 3
