How Do You Help People Who Don't Make An Effort?

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Society has made things really difficult for some people. There are people who by nature you should help or love to help but one thing or the other has made them play blind to their circumstances or situation.
Also, some people have marred or blocked the help access of many other people out there who genuinely need help or seek it.
A lot of people have refused to offer help to most people because of what the world has turned into. Sometimes the help you rendered could be used against you someday without your knowledge.
Some have been hurt, injured, and even got their lives destroyed all in the name of giving or rendering help, and most times to total strangers.

While some people might get harmed trying to help, some don't even make an effort to show they really deserve the compassion others should have for them and be moved to help them.
You don't expect everyone to do everything for you. If you are seeking someone's help, atleast you should make an effort, let it be seen that you tried your best yet nothing good came out of it before someone steps in to help, and not that you didn't even do anything about your situation or condition.
Folding your hands to your own problems and going about seeking help isn't always the best approach.
Try out something first, fail and try again before you seek other people's help. Make an effort and rest assured that if you happen to meet a kind helper, he or she wouldn't hesitate to help you.


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Let me pause and ask these few questions.
Peradventure you happen to meet a lazy kind of person out them with life challenges or problems, and then you realized the person has done nothing about his or her condition, yet such a person is seeking other people's help, what would you do in such case?
Would you be happy to help the person?
Would you still offer to help if you are capable even after knowing and seeing that the person hadn't made any attempt to better his or her situation? When the effort and zeal are not seen, will you still play blind to this fact and go ahead to help?
This is what I would love to hear from you guys today as we discuss.

Thank you for stopping by today and for reading my thoughts
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            9 November 2022

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