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People who know what they want from life are such a pleasure to be around. No ambiguity, no drama.
You don't waste your time because they are used to not wasting theirs. You always get what you have because it's easier to have, you feel special. And it gives you a long-term vision once you don't have to worry about money.
You don't want people to know that you are rich. Happy is love. You are better off if they think they are doing better than you and leave you alone. Your true nature is revealed the day you get rejected despite giving it your all.