Lately I’ve been talking with myself. I ask him, “what’s happening with you? Are you still fine? Can you still go on? Do you want to quit?” I think everyone experience these things too. There is an inner devil’s voice that whispers negative thoughts on our ears. This often happens if we experience hopelessness, frustrations, anxiety and depression. Sometimes we criticize our own personality and put ourselves down. We let the negativity dwell and create a monster inside us. This becomes unsafe if we let it control our emotion and thoughts. We became the worst enemy of our own selves.
I hope these advices can help to those who need it most.
•TALK WITH GOD
What we should do first is to soothe our feelings. The best way to calm a distorted mind is to KNEEL DOWN and PRAY. In the middle of confusion and unrest, talk to the Lord and ask for HIS wisdom. The Bible says
28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.
29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
Matthew 11:28-30
•SEEK FOR HELP
Talk with people that will give you encouragements and positive thought in life. Oftentimes I talk with my father. He shares some of his experiences and how he rises from failures. Sometimes I talk with a pastor or my former principal in High School or my God mother or someone older than me that could give me ideas and good advices about life.
•SELF EVALUATION AND ACCEPTANCE
We must evaluate our selves and must know our strengths and weaknesses. We should nurture the talents and abilities that we have and accepts and embrace our flaws. From there we can learn how to manage and control ourselves.
•MOVE FORWARD
No need to rush. Slowly change the bad habits that you are doing. Focus on the things that you can do great while learning to make your weaknesses an advantage. Free yourself from the inner demoralizing voice saying that “you can’t do it” by simply believing that YOU CAN and YOU WILL!
•SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSITIVITY
Be with optimistic people. Hang out with them and learn their ways. Sing a song. It helps attracts positive vibes. Go out. Be with nature. They said that being close to nature means close to God.
Do’nt let your reflection be your own worst villain. Remember that the person within you is created with strength, shaped with hope and molded with LOVE. Our faith will lead us to something great. Just hold on and keep our faith high.
I know that I am not an expert to give professional advices. But personal experiences made me stronger and wiser in life. I hope that this can help those people experiencing hardships and pain.
Thank you so much for reading. Cheers! All for HIS glory!
Pls. UPVOTE... RESTEEM... FOLLOW me 
