I do not overly photoshop my pictures and certainly I cannot use the default filters app offer because my traits are very large and everything is meant to enlarge them even more. I use a smooth skin filter though, not to the point I'm a blur but to the point it fixes bad makeup or light. It is ok to polish a picture (especially if it's in bad light or made in a haste) but not to the point where you'd feel disappointed with the real you. That's why my ig often features myself in my fleece robe You are a very beautiful woman and I personally believe (as an aging woman myself, in my 40s now) we need to normalize aging. I have a few friends rocking their seventies, with their long lush hair, and their flowy garments, and I look forward to my moon hair to kick in. By the way the Jennifer Lopez pictures of course the first is super airbrushed but the second has lots of "bad light", if you take a picture in harsh sunlight they're gonna drop weird shadows wether you are 15 or 50. But I agree it's getting out of hand, have you seen Madonna of late, I cannot even recognize her, she looks like 15 in pictures, it's crazy.