I have been obsessing about change lately, it's also a recurrent theme on my songs

Do not fear the change
if we fail the first time
we can always try again
We are brittle glass
with lines of fracture
but fear no more
give in completely

I think you can be honest and faithful to yourself and just shift, change is feared but we are constantly evolving...

I just want to say something I'm very vulnerable right now... not things I publicly share, though I guess you all realize I post steadily but "sloooowwwly" and it has a reason. I've been and am very tired and fighting too many fronts... and I'm changing... molting, trying to get read of the dead carcass, like a moth emerging from the crysalis, it's a delicate and vulnerable process

and another thing I wanted to say
I cried reading your problem
I sobbed out loud
and then I gathered my pieces
made tea
and replied to it
because tears are needed too
and also often demonised

sending big hugs