Who lied to women, making them believe that exposing their bodies is what makes them beautiful? Who says you cannot dress modestly and still look beautiful? In a world where flaunting what your mama gave you is the norm, there are some women who have made dressing modestly a part of their lifestyle, and I am happy to be one of them.
Modesty is a statement. It says, I respect myself. I value my body. I am more than just my appearance, I am perfect, a masterpiece, so defined, a direct image of the Creator. Modesty is not poverty, and dignity is not outdated. One can be beautiful, valuable, and successful without compromising his or her worth. It is simply a choice. Modesty in no way communicates timidity, ignorance, or low self-esteem. It speaks of value, elegance, inner joy, confidence, and awareness of one's identity.
Dressing modestly does not mean looking dull, unattractive, or unkempt. You can be modest and still appear elegant, classy, and confident. While I am not in support of indecent dressing and displaying of the body part, it reaffirmed my belief that clothes can make or mar your appearance. Some of our mothers take pleasure in wearing wrappers and other old mama dresses. Dressing modestly does not mean looking old, shabby, outdated and undesirable. Apart from genetics, lifestyle or money, what we wear affects our aging process. I have seen 25 years old woman dress like 60 year olds in the name of modesty. In addition, another 60 years old woman looking so cute while another of that same age range looks shabby and old. What you wear affects how you feel about yourself. Personal no matter how expensive a dress is, if I do not feel confident and happy when I wear it, if I do not look my best when I wear it, I take it out.
Modesty is beautiful Modesty is gorgeous Modesty is stunning Modesty is so attractive Modesty is beautiful and very much in vogue! Modesty is the true beauty never fades. Modesty is not bland or boring Modesty is not tasteless Modesty is not Shabbiness! Modesty is not gloominess! Modesty is not shabbiness.
True modesty reflects dignity and self-respect, not poverty or lack of beauty. I believe modesty has to do with covering our bodies beautifully, dressing in a way that reflects dignity and elegance. Dressing modestly does not mean being shy! I dress modestly because it makes me feel good, not because I am hiding or afraid. Modesty is important because it brings out your true beauty, commands respect, and makes you look presentable. People will address you based on how you dress. Modesty gives off confidence and elegance like an aura that speaks before you do. The Bible says, “As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.” Therefore, looking modest also reflects your mindset and the values you uphold. Shyness, on the other hand, comes from fear and hiding your personality. Modesty is a choice. People are not born modest we choose what to wear, how to speak, and how to carry ourselves. Modesty does not come from being shy or poor. You do not need to have enough money before you can dress modest. Even if you have money or confidence, you can still choose modesty (1 Timothy 2:9). God would not instruct it if it was not something, we could choose to do. When you live modestly, people see you as responsible, disciplined, and respectable. Modesty is tied to humility and obedience to God’s Word. God delights in those who honor Him with their bodies. In addition, let me shock you modesty attracts favor! Why? Because it reflects self-respect, obedience to God, and dignity qualities that both God and people honor. Modesty is like a magnet; it pulls respect without you even begging for it. No matter your looks, be pleased with your Maker. Modesty sets the tone for how others approach you.
Modesty is the highest elegance"
