Good day ladies and gentlemen how are you doing , it's a pleasure for giving me this golden opportunity to expense my though towards this topic .
Looking back at my past and cencealy this incident happened to me I will never allow such bad experience to happen again .
This is how the incident happened , it was on the 4th of April 2019 which was my birthday month that the problem began .
I meet a lady Sarah who was 19 and seriously looking for love . She is been single for a while and felt lonely, without my knowledge.
One a 7th of April we matched on a dating app. We had a lot of communication and interesting conversation Wich lead and we felt a strong connection which is beyond my understanding. Me been charming, funny 馃ぃ along the line understand hermy better.
On 13 we meet for dinner, at the restaurant the bond we shared was too strong . We talked for hours, laughed and shared our deep thought . You know knowing I'm meeting a special lady made me put a lot of effort into my dressing code and likewise I did a little make up funny me .
Sarah felt safe and special while looking at my face .
After dinner, I invited Sarah to my place which she agreed, because of the strong connection we sat close on the couch talking softly.
I move closer to kiss her suddenly her heart raced ,
We had a passionate kiss, and we had things together.
In that moment, Sarah felt a mix of desire and doubt. she felt the need to slow down because we just meet . But my touch felt so good , she thought I would lose interest in her if she refused. Out of her hesitation we had sex .
The next morning, Sarah woke up feeling strange in my bed . She was expecting a warm embrace, but I was distance from her. But instead I gave her some inrelivant excuse about visiting a friend, I hurried her out , she left feeling used and embarrassed.
She waited for my calls and text , but days turn weeks and weeks turn months and months turns years all with silent . She later message me but my reply was brief . She felt crushed. Because she shared her body, hoping it would lead to marriage , instead she felt cheap and foolish.
The following week, Sarah struggle with sadness and self doubt. She wondered if I ever cared or just want to use and dump her . She regretted not waiting to know me better. What hurt her more is that she believe she gave a very precious part of her to someone she saw on a casual day.
She had things with me hoping it would deepen a connection, but without time of building trust and understanding. But the true fact is sex remains just physical.
One person may see it as a step towards love, which the other see it as a fun night.
I mistake good chemistry for a good mach, while no time looking deeply if I truly I love her and her personality values .
Moreover, quick intimacy can prevent a deeper bond from forming. Getting to know someone slowly their hopes of building a solid bond connection is sure .
But when sex comes first , it can overshadow this process . Many people lose interest once the physical desire is satisfied.
Sarah's story shows why it's often wise to wait. Truly sex is powerful, likewise it can create a false sense of closeness. But taking one's time to build trust and mutual understand makes intimacy far more meaningful when it happen .
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