昨天接了老母亲一个电话，她说我弟弟愿意带她出去转转，母亲说她实在不愿意出门，母亲本来就内向的性格，而且坐车晕车，每次坐躺车像生了一场大病。
所以我的观点是：母亲不愿意出门就不让她出门，老人怎样舒服就怎样。
弟弟的观点是，老人年龄大了，不出去看看怕留下遗憾，他这确实也是孝心一片，而且也有他的道理。
Pick up the old mother a call yesterday, she said, go out to walk around my brother would like to take her, my mother said that she really didn't want to go out, mother was introverted personality, and rode carsick, sit lie car every time you take a bad illness.
So my point is this: my mother wouldn't let her out of the house if she didn't want to go out.
The younger brother's opinion is that the old man is too old to go out to see the fear of leaving him. He is also filial and has his reasons
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(the one on the left is my mother)
这也让我想起了我的爱人，跟我弟弟的观点差不多，为了让我婆婆来城里“享福”，也不提前做好思想工作，强行把老人带到城里来住，每次来了都得得病，婆婆在老家几乎不怎么得病。
It also reminds me of my love, he agree with my brother's point of view, in order to let my mother-in-law to "live" in the city, don't do ideological work ahead of time, forcibly took the old man to the city to live, every time to the sick, the mother-in-law in their hometown almost don't get sick
我跟爱人说，如果想让老人来城里，要好好的跟老人说通，她愿意来是好事，她实在不愿意来别强求。咱们可以多回乡下看老人。 I told my lover that if she wanted the old man to come to town, it would be nice to talk to the old man, and she would be happy to come. We can go back to the countryside to see the old man.
我认为，老人们有他们固有的想法，年纪大了，尽量随着他们的心，想出去转转就带他们出去转转。不愿意出远门、特别恋家的就在家，平平静静的生活也不错。
老人们很幸运有我们这么孝敬的孩子。我们尽量给他们所需要的吧，你认同我的观点吗？
I think that old people have their own ideas, old age, as much as they want to go out and around with them. Don't want to go out far, special homesick is at home, the quiet life is not bad.
Old people are lucky to have such a dutiful child. We try to give them what they need. Do you agree with me?
