@penderis thanks but the numbers work out unless the steemitwallet itself is useless too , i have put in new delegations to find out, but on every account i am missing SP, sp that says in steemitwallet is there but its not and on the screenshots @sakhmet there are no outgoing delegations at all, everything should be in order
but its not
steemitwallet :

1,006.793 STEEM

(-898.532 STEEM)

equals 108.2 but it says 4 on dlease and even if i use the standard steembottracker ... (which all uses steemconnect) i can NOT delegate out more then 4
so some nodes are giving conflicting info but i know all that sp WAS delegated up until a week ago so its there ... or it WAS and it went, and im sure i didnt send it to /dev/null

just fyi ... i hope it will 'balance out' ...

i KNOW my active delegations but thanks for the reply