It takes time, effort, and a lot of learning to parent well I think.

Yes, I totally agree with you. Now that I in my last years of my fourth decade of life, I see that parenthood is far more less likely to occur. Unfortunately. But when I was younger, just the thought of having to raise and teach a "little human being" scared me so much... All that responsibility, and the chance of missing out that task. Now I can understand, that is not like a faculty exam. It's a different "task". It relies much more in the way that we provide the example and to take all the effort to be present, like you said.