_Hello friends Steemit yesterday listening to a friend who is a single mother I realized how important it is to have children when choosing a couple. They did not want to look for a partner to have someone to face because they arrived half an hour late, or because they have not bathed while watching a football game. No, they needed a person with whom to share fragments of life, who would teach them a lighter side, make them laugh, forget their routine, an adventure partner and not a boxing bag. They already have enough problems to get one more
Then why analyze and I want to give some tips
If you are in love with a woman who is a single mother, the first thing you should do is establish a good relationship with your child, since occupying a space in your life and that of the child is very important . Of course it is not easy, you have to attend immediately all the advantages and disadvantages that you have before this particular situation, since it is not the same to fall in love with a woman without children than a single woman with children.
Respect It is very important that you know how to give the space of education between your mother and child. Remember that they already have a special connection as to how to communicate, what you can do is little by little get in but to support and add, never to remove the power of command that she has over her son.
Fun Children like to share with people of good character, show fun when you are with her child. That will be worth many points.
Know what you like Identify what you like to do, whether you clean in sport or any other activity that the child enjoys, that will give you the advantage of surprising him with one of his favorite games.
Respect Show him that you respect his mother and that you love her as well as the child.
Establish rules as a couple If you already live together, try that the rules that will impose are discussed before between the two of you, and both make him see the most appropriate way to the child and are in common agreement.
Do not fall into the obligation Never force the child to tell you dad or mom, this is reprehensible, since it has to be born to the child to call you that without pressing them.
Enjoy your relationship and integrate the family that she can offer you.
I hope it can help you
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