Your friends are quite responsive.

Hmm.. would I confess love when I'm tipsy or Sane?

This love of a thing Sha....
I would confess 'love' when I'm my perfect frame of mind because I may just be blabbing rubbish if I'm tipsy.

Sane would be my answer. When you're sobber and sane, you connect more. You build a conversation. You see and know if it's truly love or something else.