I cannot imagine the pain you and your family have gone through.
I know life is already tough for a person living in a foreign country but with lawsuits and all that, I think it's really tougher. Your wife thinking of ending her life could be a sign of the entire family moving back to your hometown, as living in SK is already stressing you out. I hope you and your family, esp your wife can get through this and find the light at the end of the tunnel you're in right now.

It's kinda weird to promote Hive and ask you to stay when you are in the middle of chaos but hey, if you ever need a friend, we're all here in Hive. I attended a webinar last Oct 1 and the speaker was saying that writing could be a form of relieving stress, an emotional release, and an escape from reality. So I guess, Hive can be a little help.