WHAT IS THAT THING IN THE OPPOSITE SEX THAT CATCHES YOUR FANCY?
Last night, while chatting with Dandy Anwuacha I expressly told him that thing that can makes me fall for a guy easily or make me crave for friendship with him
It is singing, writing or dressing in fine cooperate馃槉馃槅
Chai if you are good at any of the three or even the three at once, forgerrit! I will be ready to swim in a pool of friendship with you
But the thing is,
These things might make us friends but then they won't keep us as friends
You shouldn't just instantly decide that somebody should stay your friend because he can write or because he sings perfect alto, or because he can draw for Africa or he is really popular on facebook
is that all your taste?
I mean okay there must be a point of attraction
you got attracted to her because she is creative but why are you still her friend?
See this life is not just it
I remember writing a post about people who come here to motivate people with things that do not happen in their own life.
Dandy Even said that many things many people who write beautifully come here or else where to say do not even happen in their own lives
Some of them can't even speak proper English but they write awesomely
And yesterday I remember saying that most people here presents themselves as what they actually wish to be not who they really are
So don't be deceived in picking your real friends
because your friends show who you actually are
Asides from your point of fancy what else are u interested in?
Ah for me like this
just be pretty intelligent
Have some principles
because you are free spirited,doesn't mean you shouldn't have some sense of orderliness and a rule for your self
Be God fearing and be spiritual to an extent
i am a very spiritual person and am proud to say it anywhere. Incase you don't know spirituality isn't Religiosity
And at least have a sense of humor
I just hate boring and rigid people..Your over seriousness won't take you to Heaven Hanty
In All
in your choice of friendships and relationships
don't let what tickles your fancy in that fine Brother rule over your sense of judgement