Hello everyone and welcome to my blog at this hour. Are there times when you are unsure of your position in your relationship? The times when you feel like you are single or in a relationship with yourself. The truth is that your relationship may feel like hell if you are not sure of your position in the relationship or if you are not on equal page with your partner. There are serious complications in relationship when partners do not share similar purpose, goals or vision. Well, sit back, relax and enjoy all that I have packaged for your reading pleasure.
The most obvious sign of a complicated relationship is that there are difficulties in communication. Communication is the bedrock of any relationship and once there is no proper communication between the two partners, then there is the need to question your position in the relationship. The complications in the relationship that result from communication is often linked to the fact that one partner is afraid of speaking because he or she is afraid that the relationship may come to an end.
Sincerely speaking, it's better to remain single and be on your own rather than being in a toxic relationship where you can not express your feelings, intentions and actions freely. The moment you can not speak freely or express yourself the way you want, then there is a serious problem that you need to find a way to solve before it destroys you. There's no need for staying in a complicated relationship where you can't state whether you are in a relationship or not.
In addition, there are relationships that possess two different qualities, that is, the good and otherwise. In this case, if you are constantly making efforts to minimize the negatives and focus on the positives only, then there is a big issue. This is what could be referred to as coping in a relationship. However, it is not possible to last for a long time by just choosing the good parts of someone, it is always a complete package, you must be ready to embrace both the positive and negative. This is commonly expressed when there is a challenge in the relationship and one partner is always quick to taking responsibility for everything just because he or she doesn't want the other person to feel bad or something.
The solution to the problem of your uncertainty about your position in a relationship can be solved through communication. Speak to each other about it and express how much you want to know your stand in the relationship and how you can not keep with not being expressive. The earlier the better you make the decision because it may affect your mental health through depression, anxiety and insecurity.
All contents are originally written by me, 
Williams Oluseyi is a Linguist by discipline from one Africa's Most Prestigious Citadel of Learning, Obafemi Awolowo University. He developed interest for blogging at very early stage which motivated him to study English Language in College. He is a prolific writer, an inquisitive and judicious reader, to say the least. To get his daily bread, he is currently working in a Logistics company in Nigeria.
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