This proverb is such a powerful reminder that true strength lies in restraint. I appreciate how you broke down the Sanskrit verse — not just translating it, but bringing out its deeper meaning with the agarwood analogy. It’s beautifully said: real character shows not in comfort, but under pressure. It might help to also touch on how one can gradually cultivate this kind of emotional discipline in modern life — especially since, as you rightly pointed out, it's not easy for most.