The truth is if we keep waiting for things to get perfect in one way or the other we might gonna be having a very long wait, and if the things we are expecting didn't turn out to be the way we expected them we are going to feel very depressed, sad and angry at all times so instead of giving ourselves a heartbreak why not just take it easy and watch things unfold naturally or better still work towards things the way you want them to be rather than expecting them to be in another way. so if you wants to achieve something you go for it and do it yourself instead of expecting it to be.