With respect, I approach living life "holistically" rather than by some "rugged tough guy" human model.

I've met Hulk Hogan and chatted briefly with him. What he presents, as a "personality" to the world, is NOT REAL...is just there to fill the back account. And playing it has come with a negative price.

I prefer putting out into the world what I'd like to come back to me. This requires "getting out of the way" and LISTENING, letting "something greater within" point to the best choices.