@trafficinsider, be happy you are not sharing a medium-size house with 11 men born and reared in inner-city ghettos.

ALL of them, in and out of rehab AND prison, living co-dependent lives of heavy daily in-takes of liquor, smokes, weed, and sometimes pills. The most dysfunctional behavior in someone else is opportunity for immediate ruthless drama, yet the same behaviors in themselves are waived as natural.

You'll need a STACK of journals and a safe-house to fill them out in.