Narcissists have a personality disorder which can be identified by their common traits. All have these traits so spotting them is easy once you know how they act and react to life.
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First sign: They don't care about the feelings of anyone other than themselves. With no empathy, the narcissist will be abusive, exploitative, unreasonable & irrational. They see themselves in a grandiose limelight and will take to a level above everyone else. You are just an ant, where they seat themselves at the level of God. Not kidding!
Second sign: Refusal to take responsibility for ANYTHING. These people will wreck havoc in the lives of everyone around them and if you confront them, they will blame you or others for these misdeeds. How dare you try to paint them in an unfavorable light to the world! They do no wrong in their sick eyes. They live in a false reality that they know is false but to the world they hold themselves high above everyone else. This is also their supply. They need people to give them praise, tell them how wonderful they are, at the same time they are striking down those who expose the hideous truth about them.
Third sign: When the supply starts to run low and the narcissist is being exposed for being a shameful human, narcissistic rage takes over. This rage is the second step in devaluing you. They are getting layers removed by you, so now it's time to start slandering you to anyone who will listen. They will come up with outrageous stories about you so people will feel sympathy for the narcissist. Narcissists will get people to turn against you based on their rage to get you painted in an unfavorable light. This rage is extremely dangerous and the narcissist is very dangerous during this phase.
Fourth sign: A narcissist is like a one person cult who wants other people to either be a part of it, or to be banned, discredited, isolated, humiliated and destroyed. Did I mention they put themselves at the level of God? The narcissist has a following of people who believe everything they tell them. These people all think the narcissist is a great person. This is their "supply" group. So when others who see them for the shameful human they are attempt to expose them, they go whine to their "cult".
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A narcissist can be anybody from a family member, friend, spouse. Knowing how they operate is how to avoid them and leave them to wallow in their own shame. They care about no one and will destroy anyone, even their own children.
Thanks for reading! Hope this helps you identify these creatures and what their game is and how YOU fit into their world.
You can read more about this personality disorder here:
https://narcsucks.blogspot.com/p/the-narcissist_18.html
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