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Seriously, I used to have a lot of friends, while growing up, but I was not to really depend on anyone, what I am trying to say here is that no matter who my friends are I won't depend on them and I will never do that in my life.i can mingle with anyone and equally yoked with them, I am so gifted in manner ,I was able to make some friends in which some of them are now into different profession.some are now doctor, lawyers, engineers and so on , to cut the story short out of the all these friends gathered I still chose few out from others because of their way of life , attitudes , mentality and the way they reason about things around them, we mostly have the same thinking mindset or let me say we are on the same page.
We have been keeping in touch with each other for a long time now ,let me not forget there are some friends that I gathered at work too, some at where I stay and we are still together till date .
I am somebody that doesn't like going out with friends and this is due to my past experiences, how some of my so-called friends betrayed me and the level I am today is a traceable influence to how friends stabbed me in the back before I used to trust friends so much but I can't anymore.
I am not saying I did not meet with friends that brought a breakthrough for me or brought good luck for me but I am not that close to them again ever since I got married but I surely have friends with benefits but before I will make friends with you, I must have know something about and also watch you closely, I can't just jump into , it will surely take time .
You will be wondering that I said friends with benefits, nowadays there are no friends again , people are more dangerous nowadays.
There is testimony I had while my wife and I were planning our wedding. There was a friend of mine and my wife that we got connected through Facebook. I think it was when we posted our pre-wedding pictures, he found us through the picture of which we had lost contact for long and we were not even thinking of him to support our wedding plan but God used him mightily for our wedding plans .Thank God for Facebook.
*We would have missed the golden opportunity if not because we keep good relationship with good friends , though this guy I am talking it has been 6years now that we had talked after he had traveled to UK.
Bad communication really do corrupt good manners.
I jealously choose friends not because don't have my flaws but someone that has purpose, I mean that know where he is going to in life.
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