A husband and wife who live far apart because of their duties and responsibilities always forget important events or special times. Many reasons are given and become obstacles.

 

As far as the demands of work or education do not mean you cannot do anything.

People say 'far in the eye near the heart'. This is an appropriate phrase for describing a long-distance household.

 

Maintaining a household requires continuous effort even more so if the couple is forced to be far apart.

 

Imagine a person in the far north of the homeland while he is also in the south.

 

Organize appointments with a lot of commitment while at the same time, miss the husband or the wife overflowing, surely the heart is not made up.

 

This situation is called weekend husband or weekend wife is not an odd term today

 

Different from the time of our first mothers, usually only husbands work. The wife lives at home and arranges children and households.

 

Rarely is it true that a husband who returns home at the end of the week visits his wife's child, except if he has a husband or a boat sailor. But that has passed.

 

Now, with a high level of education, there are not many wives who want to be stuck in the home kitchen. They want great cooperation, a comfortable life and a high standard of living

 

But all that requires sacrifice at a price that is quite expensive - far apart from a spouse.

 

Silence and loneliness will surely envelop us. But there are many ways to present a partner in our daily lives.

 

How to maintain and perpetuate the long distance relationships that are passed?

 

Various feelings that are sad, sad and quiet when in a situation of long distance love.

Moving the workplace close to him is the best way, but usually he is outside our escort.

In fact, in a book titled Love and Household Happiness written by Richard Templer, there is a statement that in such situations you must seek your own happiness.

 

Humans must be happy with themselves, before they can make others happy.

 

Actually living far apart may give happiness if each pair sacrificed each other.

 

Each also needs to give support between each other for the future of the family.

 

Trust between husband and wife is also important. It is a very important obligation in maintaining long-distance relationships.

 

Believe in yourself that it is possible to deal with family problems and believe that the couple keeps looking after him.

 

Without strong trust everything can be destroyed. Maybe fear arises when you think your partner will cheat if you live far apart.

 

Already concerned, instead think positively that your partner has the same feelings and longing for the same.

 

If you always have negative thoughts and bad thoughts, this will harm and put yourself under pressure.

 

Besides being busy. He may help reduce silence. Look for activities that suit you to do so that the time spent is filled.

 

Although far apart, we need to be wise to share the time and time to communicate and connect such as via telephone, e-mail, solemn concise orders (SMS) and so on.

 

But do not be too often contact so that couples feel disturbed and not trusted.

Therefore limit the relationship so that longing remains well maintained.

 

In addition, in order to keep the relationship maintained involving children in communicating because the child is between the binding factors of a relationship.

 

This can also remind couples that they have families who need them.

For example, when phoning give your child the opportunity to boast and hear the voice of the mother or father.

Besides, don't make that far as an excuse. Love needs commitment. Love is also a responsibility.

Although far away, try to find a time to meet with him.

 

If the word the husband sat far south, for example, when the wife also lived far on the east coast, try to find a suitable time to meet and make a vacation.

 

At least if there is a sabbatical before. Do not meet directly. Certainly miss in the heart will be more rebellious if far apart.

 

So, if there is space, design it to meet. Certainly this will tighten the relationship again and can reduce longing.

 

Not neglected long distance love is difficult. The heart is indeed struggling when the miss is coming.

If it is personal, surely we will feel very longing.

 

But remember, don't make that long distance as a destruction of love.

 

Make it a challenge that will give us more enthusiasm to continue love.

 

Whatever obstacles there are, don't make them an excuse and a barrier.

 

But make it as something that can add our love to him.

 

If far away, you will feel homesick, right? So far it's not a bad thing. It's just one way to foster a sense of compassion and teach to become a loyal lover.

 

Crowded people know what the meaning of 'giving up' in connection. There are those of you who have separated and do not know what to do at that time.

 

Everything is felt as if life is meaningless. Tears and tears of various wonderful memories when together with the couple present in the mind of that time.

 

But everything is useless because at that time he was no longer our partner.

 

Therefore, do not forget to pray for your partner after the prayer because God determines everything.