The one thing I truly do despise is that notion, give it time? Life gets better, okay if so why does it matter? Oh some nature changed and now so do I to allow some happyness backed on the complete hypocrisy I avoid?, Aswell as I don't mean fear in the sense of like "oh no I'm afraid of the worst I need to be prepared for that" it wasn't emotional it was more so weighing the losses comparative to earns
It's better to know what you could loose to see if it's a annoyance at any given time or to whatever your doing
Ex someone dies "oh don't wanna go to that funeral it would be a time waste" same with "if my delivery driver gets stuck it'll take 6 more minutes what snack food can supplement that loss" etc