I am not trying to sound overly feminist or anything, but let’s talk about something real: there’s a unique kind of power and confidence that comes when a woman earns her own money. It’s not just about the cash, it’s about freedom, control, and voice.
A financially independent woman moves differently. She controls her world in her own way. Her voice carries weight not because she demands attention, but because people can't ignore the dedication, the hustle, and the heart she poured into getting where she is. She makes moves. She builds connections. She becomes an inspiration, simply by showing up fully in her truth.
Yet somehow, women are still made to feel guilty for having ambition. Society often shames us for wanting more: more money, more recognition, more opportunity. When a woman demands something equal to her value, she is often seen as arrogant or ungrateful. Meanwhile, her male counterparts are handed those same opportunities with ease, simply because they are socially labeled as the “providers” and the “logical thinkers.”
And when a woman dares to negotiate her worth or speak confidently about her qualifications for a promotion, the reactions she receives are often laced with bias. She’s told she’s “flaring up” or being “too emotional,” as if advocating for herself is some kind of overreaction. This narrative subtly reinforces the idea that women can’t handle pressure, that they lack the emotional stability for leadership, or that they should be quiet and grateful for whatever they’re given. Meanwhile, when a man does the same,asserts himself, pushes for better pay, or challenges decisions, he’s seen as bold, strategic, and leadership material. The double standard is blatant, and it diminishes the voice and value of capable, intelligent women who are simply asking for what they’ve earned. It’s a form of silent sabotage, one that discourages many women from speaking up again. But silence isn’t the solution. The problem is never that women are too much; the problem is that the world is still too uncomfortable with women who know their worth and won’t settle for less.
Let me be clear, this is not me trying to be controversial or confrontational. I’m just being honest. With the way the economy is going, young girls must be taught the value of financial independence from an early age. They need to understand the power of saving, investing, and budgeting,not just for survival, but for confidence, freedom, and long-term security. When girls grow up knowing how to manage and multiply their money, they’re less likely to shrink themselves or feel disempowered in the face of financial decisions. Financial literacy isn’t just a skill, it’s a form of self-respect.
Peace out✌️
I look forward to your comments
