Hi. I'm also glad to meet you in the vastness of the internet!

Regarding the link to the meaninglessness of what's happening, you can refer to any of my posts or conversations with opponents. Knowing my point of view, I'm not entirely sure what kind of statement would satisfy you. As for me, the meaninglessness of what's happening is as clear as two plus two to any sane person.

Regarding deaths, it's a very sensitive topic. Karmically responsible!
I can give you some tips on how to google certain information you're interested in.
Obituaries are available in the public domain, and it's best to search for them on social networks, where there's also a built-in translator.

You won't find photos with any object symbolizing mass graves! Such things either happen secretly, without marking the location, or the bodies are collected for exchange.
You can find photos of rows of graves with unidentified remains, marked with numbers of genetic material samples collected in advance for subsequent identification.

This is a very sensitive topic, in the sense that not all the deceased held aggressive views. All the ideologically driven ones are long gone, and now it's just ordinary guys who couldn't come up with $1000 to bribe the military commissar. Those who were forced to risk going to work and were caught on the way and forcibly mobilized.

For the third year, my family has been spared the grief of this war, despite the accompanying discomforts. And that's exactly why I try to stay away from philosophizing on such topics.

Often, not everything is clear-cut, except for the fact that a drug addict should never have allowed such a thing! It's simply not his decision, nothing depends on him. We were never sovereign.