Some years ago I used to be a kind of person who is very dependent on other people , i always rely on them for financial help , i rely on them for any decisions i want to take , I rely on them for validation of my career and so many things.
During those years I found out that I am not the only kind of person who is very dependent on others , I realize that there are many people in the society who are too dependent on others and that has made such people to have low self-esteem and always seeking validation from others before they can take decisions in life and that is very bad , so bad.
While I was too dependent on people they began to take advantage of me by treating me anyway they want simply because they believe that I have no choice than to keep allowing them to treat me any how they want since I am relying on them for my daily living , I got fed up of the whole situation and then realize that I have wasted so many years of my life depending on people too much.
So I picked up my bags and started to work towards how I can become independent and work hard for my success without relying on anyone , I must confess that it was the greatest decision I made in my life because the decision really helped my life and made things to go well for me and whenever I look back and remember all those years when I was not independent , I began to realize that I wasted so much time...but at least better late than never...