Eliminate all unnecessary thoughts. Constantly move forward, study on your mistakes. Like I simply mentioned, you want to continually be dancing. If you make a blunder,do not dwell about it, plus don't feel disappointed about it.
Learn from it. Don't frame it as a regret, structure it as a learning knowledge - any time you learn from a blunder, then you certainly actually BEFITTED from this knowledge ... whereas unless you learn from it, this may be had been pointless. so learn from it.
Always move forward. You need to see all dilemmas, as CHALLENGES. Don't allow yourself get all the way down about all of them or be weighed down.
You have to come to the realization that to grow and move forward you have to go through mistakes in your life ,not as a wasted part ,but as a learning curve,believe it or not learning by mistakes is the best learning curve there is.
NEVER DWELL on them, rejoice that you have learnt from it.
and know you are the better for it and will never go through that learning again and so we grow little by little.
A friend said to me one day ,I really thought life was cruel making me blind , but now I truly see,for in losing his vision in an accident he met his wife and he found love not only from sharing life ,but could see life in a different way, instead of hurtling through each day unaware of his surroundings.
He began to actually learn new things his hearing became more acute and he took pleasure from a baby crying a bird singing and from music
and learnt to read Braille and he said to me do not miss out on what we have around us ,you can slow down and see the things I now see
We have so much to share ,see and hear, be glad that you are really here.
He also said often its eyes that blind a man.
He was really saying turn every thing that seems a negative into a positive.
and if we are honest we all need to do that on a regular basis.
Change I cant to I can and the world will respond with you.
When we realize that there are opposites the Chinese Yin and Yang, we cant have one with out the other, to become balanced is the key to happiness and happiness comes from a balance of positive and negative the space between them.
an old saying again Chinese I believe , ''DO NOT be For or against ALL will become clear'' is a great way to think it like sleeping on it , if not sure what to do or what direction you should go.
It is ONLY at the balanced relaxed level Life reveals its true seance, remember that and your life will unfold.
several times a day be still like water, be not thinking and everyday you practice inner peace Your life will unfold.
as you are so capable of so much more than you are in ways you have not even thought of yet.
