Letter to my daughters
Dear single ladies, I know that you are beautiful, smart and intelligent and the dream of any sane man. But let me ask you , are you ready for marriage? I know that you will not have a second thought before responding to the question. But here's the truth, you need to start now to prepare you mind for the unknown wars of marriage.
Believe me, that young handsome and rich dude may just be pretending to gain your attention and possible your ''yes'' answer to his marriage proposal. So before you say yes', do the following:
1.Pay him surprise visits:
A lot of guys including myself hate surprise visit and could be so feel so unease whenever you visit them without pre informing them. Don't mind what he would say but do not make it a habit least you will look like a spy and would irritate him. Every man, including you dear sister, always needs a bit of privacy, hence the early you get to understand this, the better for the relationship.
Take note, if your friend complains openly about being paid surprise visit, then you have to look for other ways to keep him on check. I love you and do not want you to fall a prey to his abuse and fist least you should quote this pieced that I told you to visit him.
Finally, if you must insist to visit him unannounced, them I'm sure that you're matured enough and have good shock absorbents in case you get to see what you did not anticipate.
Be selective with battles, not all battles were meant to be fought
Be ready to fight and maintain your marriage zone in prayers and bent kneels.**
I am 