Spreading Love from the Philippines to all parts of the world. This is your newbie hiver 
Nobody likes to choose sadness over joy, broken over healed, or troubled over comforted. I believe everybody wishes to be glad all the time. Am I right? Well, in my 40 years of existence in this world, I have understood that life is not what we make it. There are a lot of instances that we burst into tears for people that we have mingled with. Even in our immediate family, husbands, and wives have understanding and even quarrel at times. Circumstances like this do not bring any good to us. It can cause depression, hopelessness, and brokenness and even may lead to suicidal issues.
To my fellow writers/bloggers/hivers of this community, allow me to share how I managed, coped up, solved, and distressed myself to people who have ruined my supposed to be a fruitful and memorable day. Different people with different attitudes we have met every day. Some of them are kind, generous, famous, professionals, low-key people, or Indigenous people. But don't you know that these Indigenous people are the true generous ones and very down to earth? They can share or offer help in many ways. But look at the opposite one, they are perfectionist, prideful, moody, and bossy and they even don't know how to respect or listen to his/her subordinates. They let their subordinates do the work that was supposed for them. And if you make a mistake, expect a reprimand and accuse you immediately that it is your fault. Even if you have many reasons to tell, and did all your best, you can't because according to him/her, he/she is the boss, and we are just plain workers.
"No man is perfect and only God is". But people are pretending to be perfect and mostly they are our boss. Being a poor worker/employee, all we have to do is nothing but cry and cry. Deep inside we are heavily broke and stressed. But you know what, I discovered a magical secret when I read the scripture in Romans 12:19 which states: "Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave room for the wrath of God, for it is written, "Vengeance is mine. I will repay, says the Lord". In this verse, I felt secure, encouraged, and comforted because we have a great God, a peacemaker, a defender, and a judge. In Him, we can trust that whatever He says He will do it. From that time on, I was more inspired to work. In my silent prayers, I have included the people who have hurt me. I never put hatred towards these people. My love and respect remain with them.
In the Philippines, the reports are always "ASAP" meaning as soon as possible. If it is "ASAP", it should be prioritized and more time and effort to be utilized, However the wages/salaries are low compared to other countries. But still, we stick to our job for this is our bread and butter. Wherever we go, whatever we do, challenges may come along our way, we should be smarter than those. We should be wiser in fighting our battles. Are we going to fight it painfully or effortlessly?
"Prayers can move mountains", that if you believe. It can change our sorrow into joy. It can lead our challenges into triumph. Most successful people recognized that their success and achievements were the results of their relentless prayers. So, for those who have not started yet, " Tara Na MAg-ampo Na Ta", in English, "Come and let's pray". This writing purely comes from my own experience. If somebody here can relate to my story, "Kudos to both of us." Thank you for the wisdom, Lord, and for these people who would love to read and support my story. Continue to bless them abundantly. More power and blessings to come in this community.
