Awkward situations are bound to happen when I walk into the room. The statement above left an acquaintance speechless at a party some years ago. She shouted passionately, telling the group that if she EVER caught her boyfriend watching porn then they would have to break up. It was obviously that she was out to embarrass her boyfriend with that nasty comment. Another friend stood behind her in support which riled up a few others. I threw a sympathetic glance towards her partner before interrupted her rant.
Some would argue that they're uncomfortable knowing that their partners are looking at another, but that happens on a daily basis. We're constantly looking at all genders and surrounding ourselves with others that we find attractive. It doesn't mean that we want to fuck them, we're simply wired this way.
I could infinitely roll my eyes at all the selfish lovers of my past and I'll continuously count my blessings for the amazing sex life that I have now. I'll also be honest in saying that I'll be keeping most of the dirty details locked away. I'm not shy but there are some things that I hold sacred. It most definitely is an Aquarius thing because I find that it's thrilling to have secrets only shared between lovers.
I wonder if I'll ever be in a situation where I'm able to have a real conversation with all the people that feel the need to shame their partners. Is it insecurity that drives you? Sexual frustration? Fear of the unknown and hate for the unfamiliar?
I'm closely connected with my girlfriends and we talking about this kind of stuff all the time. I'm into kinky things that they would never try and I'll question why they're doing something that I find ridiculous. No judgments, only laughs and answers that will leave you feeling like there is someone else out there that you can relate to.
