I reckon that's what to do. You aren't responsible for what other people think or do, and you rightly don't have authority over them. Getting all worked up unless there's an imminent threat to life and limb isn't recommended.

Last month I had a heart attack, and my priorities vastly redirected, much as yours seem to have. I consider that a good thing for me, and see you find it an improvement for you as well.

Thanks!