who should pay on the first date ?

Mostly the guy should pay the bills on the first but it doesn't really matter whoever pays the bills but if it's the guys idea then the bill should be on him.

Who Pays The Bills afterwards?

Both parties , possibly split the bill. But whoever is bouyant enough should handle the bill , whether the man or the woman. It doesn't have to do with a gender thing. It has to do with who is capable at the moment.

Should a women earn morethan the husband ?

Totally , there is no rule against that. Although most women use this as an opportunity to maltreat there husband's, making them do the house chores with the mindset that ( they handle the bills since they are more than the guy. Infact they are the boss ). I have seen many cases where this played out, the woman earning morethan the man and the woman turning the guy into his purse( actually when i mean purse ,i mean turning the guy into her personal driver, cook and house boy. He takes her to work, wait for her at the company's parking lot then after work he takes her home. We talk about men being egoistic when they are rich but trust me , most woman can do worst.

As a man, would you feel hurt, if you can't provide as much as your partner can?

It hurts like hell when i can't provide for my partner , especially the basic needs. It hurts more when my partner asks me for something that i know means alot to her and i am unable to provide that. It hurts morethan anything else , i pray no man should ever have these experience anymore.

Do you think a Nigerian lady would date a guy below her net worth ?

Yes and No
Everybody is not the same and women differs. Some woman will standby you knowing fully well you can't take care of them but because they love you and support your dreams and ambition. They would never give up on you.

While other women might not, since they are too expensive to take care of. There hairs , nails and other bills must be tended to , so some of them won't date a guy who below there networth