Let me start of by recapping were this topic come out from. Actually when my girl posted this on her status, i didn't quite grasp the whole theory but i came to relax and reflex on my personal experiences with people.
This is what she wrote on her status
So on my reflex's , i remembered i used to have a best friend , when i mean best friend someone that used to know me very well and we both know what's going on with each other.
We were friends for years and have attended predegree programs together over the years and fortunately we both got admission together in the same university , the same faculty and the same department. We are both studying civil engineering.
Things kept looking great and well for atleast 2 years after the admission, late last year he started acting up funny. It was after a break , he traveled and i stayed back. He came back and started acting weird , stopped talking to me , he only talks to me by accident. Just how far ? And everyone goes there way.
Well this has been going on for months now, so when i saw that status from my girl i was like ; could this be jealous or what ? Like man are we having beef for each other ? ( I thought to myself then, well i don't even own a car nor a house. So what's there to be jealous of ?)
He even stopped talking to my girl too, okay thats fine . My girl asked me to stay away from him too, at a point i had to agree with her.
So the topic : be prepared to walk alone , many that started with you won't finish with you
I sat back and began to figure it out myself, turns out she is exactly right and not just in the future but it happened to me.
Truth be told , i am someone that knows how to do my things myself and enjoy my own company if my girl isn't around, hence i have my phone and data i am good to go 馃槆.
Biggest mistake anyone could ever make is thinking you are doing someone a big favour by being there friend,lol.
To everyone out there , give things time and people will reveal there real self to you. I am very happy it happened now , maybe the day something great happens for me , maybe just maybe he might plan against me or probably get envious and poison me. Who knows ?
We should be careful with friends , especially those of us in universities and colleges. In short in every dealing with friends , just becareful .
The heart is a bag and everyone is carrying his/hers.
The true friend you have is your God, Family and your wife or husband.
Always be prepared to walk alone , your purpose in life and those of your friends are not the same. Many get killed by friends and many friends turn to enemies but for you life goes on.
Always be prepared
