[#49384] I am a 25 year old guy and have never been to a house party where people have gotten drunk, had a ton of fun, made new friends and hooked up. I am not ugly. I am 6'2, 190 lbs, 12% bodyfat. I am working out with a powerlifting coach to get stronger. Maybe my look is ruined by glasses and a receding hairline?I don't have many friends but the friends I do are all guys who have never been to parties either.Have not had a girlfriend in my life or had a drunk hookup because i have never had that opportunity - nobody invites me to parties.I am not weird (maybe a little, but who isn't?), or dumb, or needy so i feel like there is something wrong with me.I am not in any clubs because I want to do well in classes and get into medical school (it's been my dream for the past 8 years, but this state of affairs has greatly shaken it). But I am tired of relentlessly pursuing this dream and just want to be a university kid and experience some of the things everyone gets to experience before i hit 30 and this path is closed to me forever.I don't like going to clubs by myself because i don't drink much and can't make any friends there because i can't talk to anyone over the music. I don't like going to bars because I have no one to go with - no group of friends. What kind of loser goes to bars alone?I'd really like to go to a house party, if only to make friends and experience what it is like. Getting a drunk hook-up or anything like that is outside the realm of possibility at this point.I really do not know what to do. Please help.
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