I was truly touched by the avoidable death of the lady who was chasing her husband over his side chick. She died an excruciating death.
Today again, a new video surfaced online of another lady harassing her husband's side chick because her husband no longer attends to the physical needs of his home.
Guys, if you know you do not have the training and character to practice faithfulness in marriage, don't walk a lady down the road. Marriage is not a must. It's not an achievement, except in Africa where everything comes by prayer point.
Being faithful in marriage has nothing to do with Christianity or holiness. It's simply about the humane treatment and civilizing effect of our shared humanity.
It is a simple common sense. Don't do to others what you know will hurt them.
You cause pains and injury to your spouse when you sexually violate the trust reposed to you as her close confidante.
Have you ever imagined how it feels to be the one being cheated on? You may not survive it. Infidelity of one's spouse is a terrible feeling.
I have had guys cry to me because of how their wife cheated on them. In the book of Malachi where God said he hates divorce, God was actually addressing the treacherous behavior of the men of Israel towards their wives.
These men not only practice adultery and were unfaithful to their wives, they usually would add to the wickedness by driving her out of the marriage.
Hence, God cautioned and said that he hates how treacherously they dealt with their wives and still divorce them.
Adultery is not just selfishness and a sin; it is wickedness. You have to be wicked to act inconsiderate.
I have heard some men talk about how they love their wife even though they keep side chick or indulge in adultery.
Such men do not know what love is. Love in simple sense simply means to be considerate. It means to put the other person in your shoes.
See you soon. Thanks for your time.
